First of all, thank you for making this day be a lot easier than anticipated in moments of anxiety yesterday. We are lucky that my dad simply has early onset demetia and not any other issues that might change his personality in any way. He was entirely cooperative with the doctor. We did get a referral to a nuerologist, but we also confirmed that a formal diagnoses would immediately result in his driving priviledges being revoked. Since we do need him to be able to drive (and we know he can for very basic trip), we will drag that process out until my mom can drive again, or until we feel it has become a real problem.
Abundance comes in many forms and from many sources. It is good to have this VA designation in our back pocket for the future. We will just explore all others first.
I am grateful that there do seem to be others.
I am grateful for the ability to reach out to communities online to gather more ideas and options.
May blessings of love and abundance flow to those who are wishing the same to us, and reaching out to help where they can.
Be kind, be loving, just be.